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The Value of Economic Independence

10/14/2019

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A few weeks ago, I wrote about ways we can dismantle the patriarchy. One of my main points was, be or become economically independent (being interdependent is fine, too -- just don’t put all your eggs in someone else’s basket).

This was always such a basic one for me. I’ve heard countless stories of women who depended on their husband’s income and then upon divorce, believed their only option for survival was finding another husband. Even though this situation is more rare these days, I still hear women say every once in a while, “I wish I could find a rich husband.” Even if they are half serious or only joking, it is disconcerting they’d even have that thought in their consciousness. It means they feel like they don’t have the ability to create the kind of life they desire on their own and the only power they have is the aptitude of attracting men. That’s the old paradigm.

It might be fun for a while to have a free ride, but there’s nothing that equals the feeling of accomplishment by generating your own income and being able to take care of yourself financially. That feeling of accomplishment translates into confidence. This combination of capability and confidence gives us power! These are the kind of things we need to upend the patriarchy. Plus there’s really no such thing as a “free ride.” We wind up paying for it in other ways. 

I was in a tight spot myself when I was in my 20s. I was living hand-to-mouth, on the road in a small RV with my then boyfriend. We often didn’t know where our next meal was going to come from. After four years, I was ready to go my separate way, but didn’t have any money put aside for renting a place. I had no idea what I was going to do and felt very trapped. Luckily, I happened upon the book Creative Visualization by Shakti Gawain. I practiced a couple of the visualizations from the book twice a day for a month to manifest the two things that would help me become independent: a house to buy for myself and a bead store to own. Long story short, I wound up manifesting those two things which eventually brought me financial independence. 

How are you doing in this arena? Do you need help?

Here is some suggested reading:
  1. Creative Visualization, by Shakti Gawain
  2. The Soul of Money: Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Life, by Lynne Twist
  3. The Attraction Distraction, by Sonia Miller
  4. Wild Money, by Luna Jaffe
  5. Think and Grow Rich,by Napoleon Hill
  6. The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham, by Esther Hicks
  7. The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity, by Catherine Ponder
  8. The Courage to be Rich, by Suze Orman


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11/18/2019 04:26:12 pm

I am not sure if I want to attend this workshop, but it wouldn't hurt my career, right? I know that I am still new to this, so I need to get as much knowledge as I can. I want to go and learn from you guys, but I do not really have a lot of things that I can do. I do not have the money to go and pay for it. I will make something happen, though.

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